05-06-2010, 07:40 PM
My grandmother passed away last night, (its okay she was 90 and has been in a nursing home for the past 13 years). Although it's a little sad, I'm not real tore up about it, that is life.
I have been given the duty as a pall bearer. I don't know what a pall bearer does. Do I carry an urn, and act real creepy, like the "Undertakers" manager?
I don't have a funeral appropriate suit, and I can't get one anywhere near me, and I don't have the cash to get one online and shipped in the next 2 days.
This is also going to be a hard core catholic funeral. I'm not catholic, this was my step mothers mom (I've known her for 20 years though). My Dad, and I have no idea what a catholic funeral is like. He said it is like a 3 day long event.
The deceased also comes from major money, so the other pall bearers will be rocking Armani suits, or whatever. Even though this is a funeral, I don't want to look like the poor dumbass from the gutter. I want to respect the funeral by wearing something nice, and for my own selfish reasons, I don't want to look like the worst dressed.
I have been given the duty as a pall bearer. I don't know what a pall bearer does. Do I carry an urn, and act real creepy, like the "Undertakers" manager?
I don't have a funeral appropriate suit, and I can't get one anywhere near me, and I don't have the cash to get one online and shipped in the next 2 days.
This is also going to be a hard core catholic funeral. I'm not catholic, this was my step mothers mom (I've known her for 20 years though). My Dad, and I have no idea what a catholic funeral is like. He said it is like a 3 day long event.
The deceased also comes from major money, so the other pall bearers will be rocking Armani suits, or whatever. Even though this is a funeral, I don't want to look like the poor dumbass from the gutter. I want to respect the funeral by wearing something nice, and for my own selfish reasons, I don't want to look like the worst dressed.