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You're a bigger man than most to be willing to step up and play the dad role for this girl. I know it's none of my business, but what happened to the baby's father? Why's he not around? For a dude to want no involvement with his baby on the way and the mother, It's a red flag for me. Somebody in that story is a shitty person.
If i ever look at a job where the contractor has pulled out or gotten fired, i'm reluctant to take it. It's only one of two things, the first contractor really sucked, or the customer was rediculous to deal with or couldnt pay. Point being, if the situation is bad enough for someone to bail out on it, something's off. Best of luck paul, but you're a braver man than me
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Big News Paul, I missed out on the story but have been caught up pretty quickly. Yeah its a tough spot but sounds like it happened before you were even really "with" her and on the good side of things, shes still going to look hot after the pregnancy if you cant tell now. :high5: But in all seriousness, its like marrying a woman with a kid. If you love her you are going to end up loving the kid also. Just have an ex to deal with for a little more time then usual, and since hes on the hook for the $$ part of it, and your awesome coupon skillz that kid should never run out of diapers. Also you can take back diapers to walmart and get cheaper brand. I think you have a buncha huggies (expensive) and you can trade em in for Luvs (cheaper) and get more for your $$. So congrats on finding the love of your life, sorry for the shituation. I am sure it will all work out.